...and moving on.
I read somewhere that the most attractive trait a woman can have is confidence. True or false? From my experiences, true.
Lemme explain.
There are two parts to this. The first being just the swagger that comes along with it. I think it's a psychological thing, kinda the whole "playing hard to get" scenario. But, in this case, it's not a "game." Sometimes these girls genuinely just don't give a shit! They may be interested but aren't gonna get all bent out of shape if things don't work out, completely confident in their ability to be happy with or without anyone else. That's what draws even more of my interest for some reason. Maybe it's because I like to avoid drama and it lends me to believe that drama would be nonexistent within the relationship.
Then there's part 2: I'm an idiot. I'm not ashamed to say it either. Let me tell you a story. I was out drinking for my friends birthday with this girl that I was pretty interested in. We had been talking for a while and hanging out with mutual friends and shit. That night an older guy asked her if we were dating to which she said no. She then said "he has potential tho, I mean, who knows?" That shit blew my whole entire mind! She then laughed at me for having no idea...smh. I mean, it definitely cleared things up tho, right?
So, at least to me, confidence makes a woman that much more attractive to me. Less drama, everything is in the open, just easy.
Looking back on it tho, none of these situations have ever worked out for me. Fuck...
PS: I wrote this while driving. Role model shit
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